First, make your choice
Second, acquaint yourselves with each others characters
Third, get the consent of both parents
Fourth, get wedded according your religious beliefs and also have a court wedding.
With such foundation you have invited God and man into your marriage which means it is standing upon a rocky stands.
More tips to a happy marriage:
LOVE: there should be sincere love between the partners, more especially a kind of love without attachment. If one have attain to this state hardly you experience divorce or unhappiness. BAHA ULLAH said, “Live free of love for its beginning is pain and its end is death”. To attain this state one needs words of God in ones life which will lead to self-realization and self-realization is another topic entirely.
CONSULTATION. In everything you do with your partner there should e consultation. Keep your partner sincerely aware of the happening around you. Surprises are good but if misunderstood it can damage relationship.
EAQUALITY: There should be equal input in your marriage. If there are excesses try to sincerely and humbly bridge the gap. For example, one partner drives or know how to drives always, the other should learn to drive to balance and share the stress in driving in a marriage life. Likewise in other aspects of their living together.
TRUST: Learn to trust your partner even when you suspect foul play until he/she desist or admit by oneself. Do not whine so much rather be moderate and rely upon God through prayers and meditation. Most challenges of life have a way of get solve when table before God.
CLEANLINESS: Cleansing of one mind is true beginning of cleanliness which extends to body and physical environment. Prayer, meditation and positive thinking form the bases of having clean mind. Cleanliness magnets things around us, it creates peace of mind and happiness.
FOCUS: {CONCENTRATION} you need to develop the third eye which is you inner eyes. The inner eyes must be focusing n the above points. To remain in your marriage you need prayers, love, and trust etc everyday to keep it going. Never allow your mind to wander in wilderness of frivolities
Second, acquaint yourselves with each others characters
Third, get the consent of both parents
Fourth, get wedded according your religious beliefs and also have a court wedding.
With such foundation you have invited God and man into your marriage which means it is standing upon a rocky stands.
More tips to a happy marriage:
LOVE: there should be sincere love between the partners, more especially a kind of love without attachment. If one have attain to this state hardly you experience divorce or unhappiness. BAHA ULLAH said, “Live free of love for its beginning is pain and its end is death”. To attain this state one needs words of God in ones life which will lead to self-realization and self-realization is another topic entirely.
CONSULTATION. In everything you do with your partner there should e consultation. Keep your partner sincerely aware of the happening around you. Surprises are good but if misunderstood it can damage relationship.
EAQUALITY: There should be equal input in your marriage. If there are excesses try to sincerely and humbly bridge the gap. For example, one partner drives or know how to drives always, the other should learn to drive to balance and share the stress in driving in a marriage life. Likewise in other aspects of their living together.
TRUST: Learn to trust your partner even when you suspect foul play until he/she desist or admit by oneself. Do not whine so much rather be moderate and rely upon God through prayers and meditation. Most challenges of life have a way of get solve when table before God.
CLEANLINESS: Cleansing of one mind is true beginning of cleanliness which extends to body and physical environment. Prayer, meditation and positive thinking form the bases of having clean mind. Cleanliness magnets things around us, it creates peace of mind and happiness.
FOCUS: {CONCENTRATION} you need to develop the third eye which is you inner eyes. The inner eyes must be focusing n the above points. To remain in your marriage you need prayers, love, and trust etc everyday to keep it going. Never allow your mind to wander in wilderness of frivolities
