January 28, 2009
Get Marriage Help
My purpose in this site is to assist every reader with useful ideas for making your marriage and relationship work. Marriages and relationships are getting torn apart easily these days. People are failing seriously in the marriage compatibility test. There fake marriages or marriages that should not have taken place in the first place every where. I hope I can help everyone who visits this site make maximal use of his/her relationship.
STEPS TO HAPPY MARRIAGE
First, make your choice
Second, acquaint yourselves with each others characters
Third, get the consent of both parents
Fourth, get wedded according your religious beliefs and also have a court wedding.
With such foundation you have invited God and man into your marriage which means it is standing upon a rocky stands.
More tips to a happy marriage:
LOVE: there should be sincere love between the partners, more especially a kind of love without attachment. If one have attain to this state hardly you experience divorce or unhappiness. BAHA ULLAH said, “Live free of love for its beginning is pain and its end is death”. To attain this state one needs words of God in ones life which will lead to self-realization and self-realization is another topic entirely.
CONSULTATION. In everything you do with your partner there should e consultation. Keep your partner sincerely aware of the happening around you. Surprises are good but if misunderstood it can damage relationship.
EAQUALITY: There should be equal input in your marriage. If there are excesses try to sincerely and humbly bridge the gap. For example, one partner drives or know how to drives always, the other should learn to drive to balance and share the stress in driving in a marriage life. Likewise in other aspects of their living together.
TRUST: Learn to trust your partner even when you suspect foul play until he/she desist or admit by oneself. Do not whine so much rather be moderate and rely upon God through prayers and meditation. Most challenges of life have a way of get solve when table before God.
CLEANLINESS: Cleansing of one mind is true beginning of cleanliness which extends to body and physical environment. Prayer, meditation and positive thinking form the bases of having clean mind. Cleanliness magnets things around us, it creates peace of mind and happiness.
FOCUS: {CONCENTRATION} you need to develop the third eye which is you inner eyes. The inner eyes must be focusing n the above points. To remain in your marriage you need prayers, love, and trust etc everyday to keep it going. Never allow your mind to wander in wilderness of frivolities
Second, acquaint yourselves with each others characters
Third, get the consent of both parents
Fourth, get wedded according your religious beliefs and also have a court wedding.
With such foundation you have invited God and man into your marriage which means it is standing upon a rocky stands.
More tips to a happy marriage:
LOVE: there should be sincere love between the partners, more especially a kind of love without attachment. If one have attain to this state hardly you experience divorce or unhappiness. BAHA ULLAH said, “Live free of love for its beginning is pain and its end is death”. To attain this state one needs words of God in ones life which will lead to self-realization and self-realization is another topic entirely.
CONSULTATION. In everything you do with your partner there should e consultation. Keep your partner sincerely aware of the happening around you. Surprises are good but if misunderstood it can damage relationship.
EAQUALITY: There should be equal input in your marriage. If there are excesses try to sincerely and humbly bridge the gap. For example, one partner drives or know how to drives always, the other should learn to drive to balance and share the stress in driving in a marriage life. Likewise in other aspects of their living together.
TRUST: Learn to trust your partner even when you suspect foul play until he/she desist or admit by oneself. Do not whine so much rather be moderate and rely upon God through prayers and meditation. Most challenges of life have a way of get solve when table before God.
CLEANLINESS: Cleansing of one mind is true beginning of cleanliness which extends to body and physical environment. Prayer, meditation and positive thinking form the bases of having clean mind. Cleanliness magnets things around us, it creates peace of mind and happiness.
FOCUS: {CONCENTRATION} you need to develop the third eye which is you inner eyes. The inner eyes must be focusing n the above points. To remain in your marriage you need prayers, love, and trust etc everyday to keep it going. Never allow your mind to wander in wilderness of frivolities
MARRIAGE, A TEST FOR OUR PATIENCE
Marriage instituted by God for His children can be bestly describe as a test for our patience because of the following points, I will share in this inspired article of mine.
As we progress from childhood to adulthood and lastly to our grave, having a life partner is one of the major aspects of life we pass through. Marriage being a union of husband and wife in one life cause produces challenges because of its unique characteristics. The analogy of marriage is a movement of two persons who are tied together in one of their legs and ask to walk, run and do everything together. For success to be reckoned, they love cooperation, patience, understanding etc. Again, is like a bird one wing is a male the other is a female unless the two wings are propel by equal force the bird will not fly heavenward. So is marriage, hence there is a lot of divorce in U.S.A as results have shown just to mention but a few. For anyone who enters his grave of life through a fulfilled marriage will have a lot to tell us if recall to tell his or her story. However, one with a discerning eye will see that one have a pass the test of patience. The tolerance of unique behavior of one couple and the children it produces is one of the greatest test anyone can pass hence a lot of divorce. For one to have a successful marriage is a possibility requiring some steps which will fully be outline in another topic called “STEPS TO SUCESSFUL MARRIAGE
As we progress from childhood to adulthood and lastly to our grave, having a life partner is one of the major aspects of life we pass through. Marriage being a union of husband and wife in one life cause produces challenges because of its unique characteristics. The analogy of marriage is a movement of two persons who are tied together in one of their legs and ask to walk, run and do everything together. For success to be reckoned, they love cooperation, patience, understanding etc. Again, is like a bird one wing is a male the other is a female unless the two wings are propel by equal force the bird will not fly heavenward. So is marriage, hence there is a lot of divorce in U.S.A as results have shown just to mention but a few. For anyone who enters his grave of life through a fulfilled marriage will have a lot to tell us if recall to tell his or her story. However, one with a discerning eye will see that one have a pass the test of patience. The tolerance of unique behavior of one couple and the children it produces is one of the greatest test anyone can pass hence a lot of divorce. For one to have a successful marriage is a possibility requiring some steps which will fully be outline in another topic called “STEPS TO SUCESSFUL MARRIAGE
MARRIAGE IS A GROWTH
As we all are created to know God and to worship Him. As we are also created to carry forward an ever advancing civilization, hence marriage becomes necessary for all in these days to be involved. In marriage, multiplication of human beings occurs. For a man or woman who is single becomes two in one and the child that comes thereafter increases the number. Marriage helps us to prolong our stay in this earthly life. As children are extension of their parents hence prolongation occurs therein. Marriage increases our productivity, broaden our vision and diversify our service to mankind
In the story of creation from the biblical angle, Adam and eve becomes the parent of mankind today. Through them we are born. If one takes any insight thereof, one will see unimaginable growth. Every single person multiplies in marriage. Marriages produce continuation of our existence after death. Marriage produces our caring, loving, protection etc. Having seen marriage as a growth we can now expand its horizon and preservation. These points cannot be exhausted on this page but God willing more will be written later on
In the story of creation from the biblical angle, Adam and eve becomes the parent of mankind today. Through them we are born. If one takes any insight thereof, one will see unimaginable growth. Every single person multiplies in marriage. Marriages produce continuation of our existence after death. Marriage produces our caring, loving, protection etc. Having seen marriage as a growth we can now expand its horizon and preservation. These points cannot be exhausted on this page but God willing more will be written later on
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